Sunday, September 29, 2013

Honorary Choir members

On Saturday, Mom taught a dance/exercise class at a District Relief Society activity. 
Today (Sunday), was the Branch conference for Beira 1. The Branch President said that the branch has 448 members. During the first three months of this year (Jan. - Mar.) the average Sacrament meeting attendance was 68. During the second quarter of this year (April - June) the average attendance has increased to 117 !!  

Here is a photo of the choir, with a few honorary members (including myself !) 

On this Wednesday, another senior couple, Elder Larry & Sister Sandy Dille, will arrive in Beira and will live directly above us. They are from Tremonton, Utah. He is a nurse and they previously served another medical mission at the MTC in Brazil.

This Thursday is the Beira Zone Conference, in which we anticipate 60 missionaries being present. One companionship (from Marromeu ) will travel by car for 10 hours each way. Another companionship (from Tete) will fly to Beira. It Should be another great week !

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Without Water

This morning at 6:35 am, I received this text message in English from a native Portuguese, Elder Santos from Cape Verde:

"Good morning Elder Snelson. We have a little problem in our apartment. We don't have water for 3 days, and at the present time, the bottles that we had finished. When you are available, call us in order to explain to you better. Os MissionĂ¡rios"

This humble missionary had gone three days before he asked for help ! We have so much to be thankful for. Our water also went out for a few hours yesterday. During that time I went and purchased a 20 liter container and filled it up at the Church. 

It appears that the vast majority, perhaps 80% of the members in the Beira District do not have running water in their homes. They retrieve water from a community well. This of course reminds me of the Savior's teaching the woman of Samaria at the well.
Yesterday, we attended six marriages in Manga. They have a type of sing-a-long with the audience after each marriage. 
Life is great here. I'm excited for General Conference. Hopefully, we can watch the morning sessions live !

Sunday, September 15, 2013

Youth Conference

Yesterday, Mom and I were invited to attend a type of youth conference with the Dondo Group (they have not yet qualified to become a Branch). Dondo is located about a 45 minute drive and is the furthest congregation from our city of Beira.

They, like all the Branches, have a large amount of active youth. There were perhaps 40-50 youth, including the 18 year old YW president and the 20 year old YM president. Also, it appears that about 70-75% of the active youth are in Seminary/Institute and these combined activities are with the young men. The young women are clearly the minority. Some explanations include: it is not important for girls to learn the Seminary lessons or girls need to stay home to help around the house and to care for their younger siblings.

Also, for whatever reason, it appears that there are very few married couples serving in the YM/YW organizations of the Branches or attending the youth activities.  We were the only married couple in attendance at Dondo.   Additionally, The Branch/Group leadership or any married adults do not appear to attend the various youth activities.

They held this event at a type of park with large trees, playground equipment, concrete type of basketball/soccer court. It was a very peaceful & quiet setting.

We left this activity to hurry back so Mom could attend a Primary training meeting for the new Primary Presidency in Beira 1. 

The District Primary President has served for 6 years, she has a lot of energy. Her name is Ana Maria Mafuro. She was married when she was 16. She has eight children (4 boys & 4 girls). The youngest is a 2 year old boy and the oldest is a 17 year old girl.  She and her husband joined the Church seven years ago and six years ago they were sealed in the temple. Her husband previously served as the Branch President. However, two years ago her husband was killed in an accident helping someone build a home when a wall fell over on him. She is 35 and a widow with 8 minor age children !

Here is her photo. We gave her a ride home as not one member of the new Primary Presidency attended the scheduled training meeting.....

Pray, Stay & Obey!

This has been another good week.
 On Tuesday, Sept. 10th, it will be our 3 month anniversary !! Yesterday (Saturday) there was a group of 4 collective marriages which will result in their baptisms this week. 

We continue to help where we can. We are a type of 'resource as requested'.
Every day is different, but we sleep good at night after an exciting day of service. 

Keep ready & studying. 

Pray, Stay & Obey !!

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Meeting with Branch President

Today, is our 3rd fast Sunday ! We only have 15 left....time has gone by somewhat fast.

This has been another great week. 

On Wednesday night, August 21st, we together with the six full time elders met with the Branch President of Beira 1. President Chivale, began by reading from Exodus 18:14-24, about the importance of delegation, otherwise,  "Thou wilt surely wear away". It appeared that even his counselors were not completely active.....We suggested that he release those that were not performing their duty and call new ones.

Well today, the District Presidency conducted District business in which his two new counselors and an executive secretary were sustained as well as an entire new Elders Quorum Presidency. 

Next, President Chivale conducted the Branch business in which an entire new Primary Presidency and Sunday School Presidency were sustained as well as changes in YW !!

Wow, he sure took our suggestion to heart !

Now we will try to assist the District to train these newly called members.

Pajama Party!

    On Tuesday, we had our usual staff meeting and Isabel came to clean. 
 As you know, Dad loves yogurt so if there is any at the store, we stock up big time. 
But he made an exciting discovery: Tuesday is "Yogurt Delivery Day." 
So, our shopping day is now on Tuesdays and we get some looks when we pile
 7 or 8 big containers in our cart. There's definitely a "scarcity" mentality here. 
We've learned that just because you see it once, doesn't mean you'll see it again 
so we tend to stock up on stuff we like.
    We did talk on the phone to the Sr couple that's coming in a couple of weeks. 
 He's a nurse so he is going be the mission nurse and they are going to live in the same
 building that we are in, so we will have somebody to hang out with. 

On Thursday, Dad mixed up some preomethrin and sprayed the apt because we had 4 very big cockroaches and they freak me out big time! Of course, it was always me that found them - one ran over my foot while I was in the bathroom! Yuck!!
Then later, Mariana (seminary teacher that's the med student) came over for me to teach her how to make flower barrettes and brownies for a YW activity that they were having on Friday night. 


 She is the one that wanted to learn how to make brownies so she could get a husband. :) Anyway, we made them and it was like she was at Disneyland, using all the kitchen stuff like the mixer and oven - even the rubber spatula amazed her! When I explained the tradition of licking the beaters and the bowl and asked her if she wanted to, she said, "Yes!! That's a very good tradition." I burned the top of the brownies because I converted the Fahrenheit to Celsius wrong :( but she said it didn't matter, the girls would love them anyway.

When I took her home, she said, "Sister, would you come to the pajama party?" I said sure and asked her if the leaders were wearing pajamas or not. She said she wasn't sure. She wasn't going to because she didn't have any pajamas. So...
On Friday, I met her at the market by her house, and followed her down the narrow dirt path to her house. Oh, that reminds me - I forgot to include the picture in the last letter that we took when we went with the elders to their investigator's house that night.
Mariana's neighborhood is similar to this one. When we got there, the YW president and the other counselor were getting the coal fires ready and preparing the food.

  A few girls were taking turns cutting the cabbage and potatoes. One would sit and cut the cabbage into a basket on her lap and then when she got tired, she'd pass it to somebody else.  Mariana got 3 grass mats and laid them outside and the girls sat on those, because her little kitchen/dining/living/storage area was way too small for everybody and SO hot!! 
 One pot is rice, one is spaghetti, and the chicken is on the small stand on the ground.



  They had 27 girls! The girls sat on the mats and played hand-clap games. Even the older girls played. After the food was prepped, Mariana gathered the girls together on the mats and told them that it was time for a spiritual message and I was giving it. We had talked about it while we were walking to her house. {Side note: The people often don't ask you in advance to do something. We went to a baptism last Saturday and waited and waited for the branch president to come. When it finally started, the man conducting it announced that I was leading the singing and dad was saying the opening prayer. He had had plenty of time to ask us while we were waiting but didn't.}
 Back to the story: so I told her that she could go first and then I'd go but she'd have to help me because she understands a lot of English, even though she doesn't speak very much. She rolled her eyes and then got her scriptures and talked about the Holy Ghost (one of the few words that I recognized.). When I spoke, I told them about coming to Mozambique and how hard it was to leave my family and home but that I knew it was right because God had told me it was through the Holy Ghost. And I shined a small flashlight in the dark and told them He was like a light and would show them the way if they asked for help with anything. They got the gist. Then they sang songs.

On Thursday, Mariana had asked me if I had any ideas for games and I had told her about Mafia and explained how to play. So after the singing, she taught them how to play Mafia and boy was it funny watching them play!! Because I knew the game, I knew what was happening, even though I couldn't understand what they were saying. They LOVED it and really got into it!!
At 10:30, I went home because that was the latest that dad could stay up to give me a ride. The food still wasn't done.....
On Saturday, we went to a baptism. I saw the YW district (like stake) president at the church. The "Pajama Party" was a district activity being held on a ward basis, so the YW district presidency had come to visit us - naturally, just as I was starting to give my message so they heard my gobbledygook Portuguese. Anyway, they visited all 7 branches and I asked her how it went and what time she got home. (She's from Zimbabwe and speaks great English -yay!) They got home at 7AM!! It took them ALL night to visit each branch! I couldn't believe it. 

 While I was talking to her, a woman came up and handed me a baby boy. I recognized her from one of the branches but had no idea what her name was. So, I took him into the baptism service with us and figured she'd come and get him when she was done doing whatever she was doing. 

  But she never came. We went outside to take pictures of the couple and still no mom.
We took the baby in the picture with us.....





Dad held him while I lead the singing and he was super good. When he fussed, he rocked him and he feel asleep. Still no mom. After the service, we stood up and the man who was baptized walked up to me and took the baby. 
It was THEIR baby! And they hadn't said a word - not during pictures, while we were waiting, during the baptism, nothing. Dad and I just laughed - it was so typical. Good thing we brought him in the picture, he was one of their twins!
 
 They also had a Helping Hands activity that day. It was at the hospital that's right by apt. We had just gone there the previous week to visit a sick member and oh what a sight! There were broken windows inside the building and we said if you weren't sick before, you would be after you went there. All the records are kept on paper, not computer, and they file the patients by the day they come in, not by their name, so we had a heck of a time trying to find the guy we were trying to visit.




About a week ago, the branch president of the branch that we usually attend asked to meet with us and the missionaries in that branch to learn what to do about callings. He had several members, including his 2 counselors and the Primary President, who weren't even coming to church regularly, much less doing their callings. Dad told him that he had to do the hard thing and release them and that it was very important to have strong people for the auxiliary presidencies. Well, he took it to heart because on Sunday, they called 2 new counselors in the branch presidency, a new elder's quorum presidency, a new Primary presidency, and a new Sunday School president. Wham, bam - all new! We've learned that the people really listen to what you tell them, so we're very careful about what we say. But it had to be done so there's a lot of training to be done. I went in the primary, like I usually do and told the women that I'd help but my Portuguese was terrible/non-existent. They weren't doing anything so I tried to teach a song while they set up but I don't know the Portuguese titles to find the song. They didn't know either. So I finally went and got an elder to come in and translate while I did sharing time. I told David and Goliath again (a favorite) and Nephi and the brass plates. The women just watched. Then I resorted to "Do as I'm Doing" because the elder didn't know the primary song names either. The ladies liked that one and laughed at me doing the motions. After primary, I walked to the branch president's office with the primary president and her first counselor to put away the songbook and CD player (everything, even pictures, has to be kept in his office or it "disappears".) I asked them how long they had been members. The president - 1 1/2 months! Her counselor - 3 months. No wonder they didn't know the songs or have any idea what to do! The branch president has asked me to train them so next Sunday I'll attempt to teach them how to run Primary in Portuguese. 



After church, I made lasagna in the crockpot.....and it worked! I was pretty stoked! And that was the rest of our week!
We love you guys and pray for each of you every day and every night.