Today I've been thinking of the line in 
that song, "I hear it rains down in Africa,"  because it has been 
pouring rain.  We've actually had really nice weather with only a few 
rainy days, but today the wind is blowing like crazy and it's coming 
down in buckets! Metaphorically speaking, it poured this week too.
On
 Monday, I met the African version of Aubrey.  Her name is Anita.  When I
 went for my morning walk, I heard a shout and looked down the street to
 see a little girl hollering to me.  That's not so unusual, so I said, 
"Bom dia" (Hi!) and kept walking.  A couple minutes later, I heard her 
again and when I turned around, she was just rounding the corner and 
acted like she was trying to catch up with me. I said, "Do you want me?"
 and she said, "Sim," (yes!) so I waited for her. When she reached me, 
she grabbed my hand and started chatting away. I asked her if she was 
going to school and she said "yes".  Then I asked her if she wanted to 
walk with me and she said "Sim!" again, so we continued down the street 
with her keeping up a running conversation. She got a little impatient 
when she realized  that I couldn't understand everything that she was 
saying, but she hung onto my hand and kept her stride.  We passed a 
 lady that knew her and she called out to Anita, probably asking her 
where she was going with that strange white lady, but Anita tossed an 
answer and kept right on walking with me. She was hilarious!!  I asked 
her where the school bus (it's really just a battered van) picked her up
 and she pointed ahead. Finally, after a few blocks, she said that this 
was the place that she needed to wait for the bus, so we stopped and I 
told her that I had to keep walking. She made a pouty face and told me 
to stay, but this is Africa and the bus could be 10 minutes or it could 
be 40 minutes, so I told her that I had to go but that I'd take her 
picture. Here's Anita.....

 
 When I said I'd take another picture, she immediately struck a pose. :).   
6 years old and she has chutzpah out the wazoo!! And in typical 
African fashion, I could've been a crazy lady, but nobody 
stopped us......
 That night, we went 
to dinner and had Family Home Evening at the home of the first counselor in 
the district presidency. He works for a construction company so he and 
dad had things to talk about. He and his wife have been married for 3 
years and have 2 year-old twins.  His wife has an 18 year old daughter 
that she had before they met.  They live in a nice apartment with a big 
refrigerator and stove, which is the first I've seen in a home. We had 
fish, spaghetti with vegetables, meat, and rice. (every meal here has 
potatoes (usually French fries) AND rice - so many carbs, so few 
vegetables....:(   I made a marble cake with chocolate frosting and 
they loved that! I've never seen chocolate frosting here. After dinner, 
the husband gave a lesson, which I didn't understand, but I did read a 
scripture...:) The wife and daughter are quite shy but afterward, 
the wife asked me if I wanted to sing in the choir for district 
conference in 2 weeks. She said they were all wearing white shirts and 
capalanas (the material they wrap around their 
waist/body/head/groceries - everything). I told her that I had both of 
those and I'd love to.

 

 

 
 Tuesday - We had staff meeting.
Wednesday - We went grocery shopping , but otherwise pretty quiet.
 
    But Thursday, we had to go shopping for weddings with Isabel and 
another woman named Beatrice from the branch.  There were 8 weddings 
scheduled for Saturday at two different chapels in two different cities 
and they were at the same time, so there was a lot of juggling because 
the branches have to share the tables, etc. Plus, Isabel always mans the
 kitchen and makes the cakes but she couldn't be in two places at one 
time, so Beatrice was going to handle the weddings at our chapel where 
there were two, and Isabel was going to the other city to oversee 6 
weddings. But we had to shop for groceries for all 8 weddings! (Are 
y'all following this??) So, dad and I had to go to the chapel and pick 
up the tables/plates/glasses/flowers to take to the other chapel.
 Then it was off to the store.....
 Three grocery carts and 132 pounds of potatoes later, we were 
done........at the store. Then it was off to the market for the rest of 
the produce, the eggs, and the rice.
Here's Beatrice and Isabel at the market. The piles down on the ground to the left are garlic.
  That's a turkey inside the cage! 
Four  (very hot) hours later, we were done,  and it was off to the other city to unload everything. 
  Here we are, waiting for the zone leader to come and let us in. 
Then back to our chapel to drop off the rest of the groceries. Whew!! Our A/C felt so good when we finally got home!
  That night, we went over to the Buenos for dinner and a party, to 
celebrate the District YW President, Amalia, getting her doctorate 
degree.  She's a mother of 3, teaches at the university, big church 
calling, and just finished her doctorate. She's an anomaly. There are 
very few people with university degrees here and particularly women. An 
advanced degree, male or female, is unheard of. She's a bundle of energy
 and even though she speaks good English, you have to pay close 
attention because she talks a mile a minute with a Zimbabwe accent! I 
like her a lot!
     Mozambiquens are reluctant to say 
how they feel, but Amalia is frank and straight-forward. I could ask her
 if "these pants make me  look big" and she'd say something like, 
"Yes, I think you should not wear those pants."  ;) Anyway, Kelly Bueno 
had a party to celebrate and asked the district president and his wife 
and their 6 kids, their branch president and his wife and baby, and 
Amalia and her husband and their 3 kids and a niece that's living with 
them. It was a houseful. Kelly made sloppy joes and potato salad and I 
brought a veggie tray.
 And here's Amalia with her 12 year-old daughter on the right, the
 niece at the back holding another daughter, and her youngest on her 
back in a capulana, the all-purpose clothing item.

 
     After the party, we gave the district president and his 
family a ride home (they don't have a car) and then stopped by Ana 
Maria's house to take her the matapa and shrimp that I made and some 
candy for her kids. It was about 9 pm, so it was dark, and her uncle 
answered the door. When he saw me, he got this shocked look on his face 
and slammed the door and ran away, like he'd seen a ghost, which is 
maybe what I looked like to him. A couple of minutes later, one of the 
children came to the door and I asked if his mom was home. He said yes, 
but just stared at me. So I asked him if he would go get her. The door 
shut again. A few more minutes and then it opened and Ana Maria came 
out, with a child on her hip.  I told her that I'd brought her matapa 
for the next day and she said, "Oh, marvelous! Thank you!" and hugged 
me.  People don't hug here but Ana Maria does. She's effervescent. I 
wanna take her and her 8 kids to Disneyland - she'd like it as much, or 
more, than the kids. ;) 
   I had told Isabel that I'd 
help with the wedding food prep, so on Friday at 8 am, we picked up 
Isabel and headed to the Manga city chapel to fix the food. They had one
 dull knife and no cutting board to share among 6 women. The elders were 
there cleaning the chapel to get it ready, so I asked if one of them 
could get some knives and a cutting board from their house. We chopped 
veggies, baked cakes, and gutted chickens. (I was on veggies - I haven't
 tried the whole "gut the chickens" yet). I left at 2:30pm and they were 
still working. 
   Here I am "peeling" carrots before I 
chop them. They don't have vegetable peelers, they just scrape them with
 knives. It's tricky. I was the only one with a cutting board - they cut
 everything in their hands. Oh yeah, capulanas are aprons too. I've 
learned to take one with me to all the activities.
    Notice the chickens....down 
on the floor. Yikes! The girl next to me is peeling and smashing garlic.
 She just got back from a mission to Brazil a few months ago.
          Here's dad demonstrating how to carry things on your head - he did make them laugh....

 
On our way home, we got a call asking if we could 
pick up some members from the branch that were at the store buying food 
for a RS activity so we made a pit-stop and picked 3 girls and the 
groceries up and took them to the church.   Then we went home, ate 
dinner, and hit the road again to pick up 5 new elders that had just 
arrived from the MTC.  We got 5 elders and 5 sisters on this transfer! 
That makes 9 sisters total, plus 2 native sisters that have gone to 
Maputo to begin their missions because their visas are taking so long to
 come. One of them is Elisa, a seminary teacher that we've gotten close 
to. She's going to Zambia but has to go to the Provo MTC to learn 
English. I asked Megan C. if she could have the YW put together a care 
package for her and they are. I'm so excited because she has so little and 
the package will be such a fun surprise for her! The people here LOVE 
photos but very few have cameras so I emailed some pictures that I had 
of Elisa and Megan is going to get them printed and put them in the 
package so she'll have some pictures to take with her on her mission.

 
It's interesting because with the visa situation, we
 have missionaries that start their missions before they've gone to the 
MTC or temple. We just had an elder that served here for 7 months before
 he left to Brazil for the MTC and to go through the temple.  You gotta do 
what you gotta do. :)
   Anyway, when we picked  up the new 
elders, it was too many for the truck, so we had to drive the 12 
passenger van for the first time and on the  way home from the airport, 
there were 2 detours  and we got stuck in one of the detours (they're 
always crazy, narrow, muddy roads) so the elders had to get out of the 
van and push us out. They did it on the first try! Welcome to 
Mozambique, Elders!! 
Saturday, we had the 6 weddings in Manga and these were quite different
 from the others we've been to. The brides just sat on the front row, 
instead of walking down the aisle, and when each couple stood up, the 
people chanted "Para bens", which means "Congratulations!" One branch 
really wanted to welcome the couple into the branch, so they wore 
matching bright green t-shirts and chanted and danced when the couple 
stood up. They were pretty funny!
 
Two girls were following me around and touching my hair. After 
about an hour, one of them asked me a question, but I couldn't 
understand her, so I had an elder translate.  He started laughing. The 
question was: "Where did you get your hair?" Because she wanted to go and 
buy some like mine. Haha!! We had to give her the bad news that I was 
born with it and she couldn't buy it - at least not in Mozambique.......
Look at them leaning on Dad, singing the hymn on his iPhone. Not a shy bone in their body.....
   
   8 marriages!!!
  
Kids in their nice wedding clothes getting a drink from the spigot.
 

 
 After the weddings, we zipped back to Beira for 4 baptisms. Then 
we stopped and got something to eat, went home, and crashed. Long day!
 
  Sunday, I taught the kids "I am a Child of God". Ok, I really taught 
myself because it was in Portuguese. We had a slow start, but they finally
 mostly got it.  I bribed them by saying that if they sang really well, I
 had a surprise for them.  So they did and then I video-taped them 
singing it and showed it to them. Showing a video to 40 people on an 
iPhone doesn't work the greatest, but they thought it was amazing.  The 
adults got as much of a thrill out of it as the kids. :) But it worked -
 they belted it out while I taped them.  I'm trying to get them ready to
 sing in Sacrament Meeting.  Here, Primary has a stigma and nobody wants
 to serve in there so these kids haven't had anyone in there for awhile.
  I really want to show them, their parents, the new presidency, and the whole 
ward, really, that Primary isn't just a babysitting place for their kids
 to be dropped off. They can, and should, learn and it's a wonderful place
 to serve. We'll see if the kids freeze up or not.  They don't do talks 
or a Sacrament program, or anything, so it'll be a new experience for 
all of us!  I did a short training with the primary presidency after 
church and gave them materials that I had printed out from the internet,
 but we have a LONG way to go. They still haven't done singing or 
sharing time without my help.
      Well, that's our week! Busy, busy, busy!!!